Posts Tagged ‘pune’

Childhood

Posted: February 16, 2009 in Uncategorized
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Why is that when we are children and in school, we want to grow up in a hurry? And why is it that once we grow up, we want to be children again?

Got this fantastic poem as a forward (it’s in marathi, but the true essence is only felt in one’s mother tongue, and translating this will be a crime!). It is so true for my days in Pune, and which I sitting here in Mumbai, miss terribly.

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“You are Marathi?”. Yessir, mee aahe marathi manoos.
 
I could sell ice to an eskimo, but may find it tough when it comes to convincing people that I am a marathi manoos. I get passed off as a relocated keralaite, a gaothan catholic, or a nice telugu. Or sometimes as an alien.
 
Reason 1 – My diction. Not really the way Mumbaikars speak nor the way Punekars speak. My accent is a hybrid between the Pune and Nagpur styles. The old worldly style of Pune and the north influenced Nagpuri style combine strategically to ensure that I can never express myself clearly in Marathi.  
 
Reason 2 – My looks. For all to see. I look like an import from some hypothetical fairy land. Deep eyes (yup, sunk into my eye sockets!), my colour (can easily comouflage as a zebra, thanks Dad, Mom for the stripes!), my structure (as regal as the royalty of some food starved country!).
 
Reason 3 – My name. The biggest drawback is the serious lack of “kar” in my name. With a surname like this, I pass of as an ancient Maori tribesman than a inhabitant of the Deccan Plateau.
 
But at the core, I am as marathi as I can be. I always refer to Kaalnirnay, I try and read some Diwali “ank“, I sit on the katta with friends when I am in Pune, use words like “chya aila“, I wear a Gandhi topi for Satya Nararayan puja, I say “Deva Ishwara Parameshwara Panduranga” to sigh, I still love Chimnarao, I have been saying Mumbai even when it was Bombay, I love Chitale’s chirote, and the Lonavala chikki. I still call people “bandya” or “balu“. And in this day and age when parents talk to their child only in English, my wife and I always speak to our daughter in Marathi. Like mine, her sanskaar will always be true marathi!

Some pictures mean more than they say! These are random shots that I have collected from various places. Am not a photographer – but am sure you can see the depth in these pictures!!!

A New Beginning – This was taken one fine morning at the Food Mall on the Mumbai Pune Expressway at 6 am. The sun had just lit up the sky, while the solitary lamp post seems to be looking at in awe, wondering if it could ever manage this magic!!!

Light-up-the-sky!

Light-up-the-sky!

Land’s End? – Taken from atop the Chapora Fort in Goa, this breathtaking picture is more than a shoreline. It’s a reminder of what the planet was before we starting killing it bit by bit. How soon before the end?

Phir Milenge! – The sunset. This painting on God’s canvass is the most tranquil scenes that I have ever seen. When was the last time you felt peace?

See ya, tomorrow!

See ya, tomorrow!

Waterworld! – Nature’s temper tantrum in Mumbai. That’s abour 5 feet of water in my building!

Where's my boat?

Where

Life is full of choices – It’s the choices you make that truly define you. Just like this wall. Elegant, Beautiful, Solid, Fighter. Never give in, never give up!

Carved in stone!

Carved in stone!

With the redevelopment of older buildings in my neighbourhood is gathering speed and with lesser people now populating the area, I am noticing a new development also happening. In a space starved Mumbai, couples find all sorts of places to koo-chickoo!!! One such place happens to be a corner of my building, which after nightfall provides a safe haven for love birds to flock.

 

With no watchmen to shoo them away, our cars and bikes provide seclusion and shield them from the prying eyes of the world. The solitary tube light entrusted with the task of spreading light to the environs of this particular corner somehow now supports these couples, refusing to come out of its slumber, thus providing the cover of darkness as encouragement. Everyday, when I get back from work, I see some couple or the other utilising the facilities which we have benevolently provided. Some are also playing soulful numbers by Himesssss, or Atif Aslam to create the mood. Kehte hain, paani aur sacche pyaar ko koi rok nahin sakta.  

 

I am reminded of my childhood days when we used to visit the lush green environs of Empress Garden. Empress Garden – Pune – is a botanical park with a huge cover of greenery sprawling over a huge area. There also happens to be a small stream flowing through it adding to the charms. We used to go there on Sundays to generally have a good time lazing around playing cricket and badminton or just running around through the stream. This place is also full of huge trees, as also bamboo groves. Every tree had at least two lovelorn couples “engaged” in affection. Bamboo grooves were even better. These were a perfect camouflage for snakes and couples alike, all of whom used to have intertwined bodies. We innocent minds never understood why people had to hide and talk to each other. Since we were fed on a diet of hindi movies, we thought that love was all about singing songs in the garden around trees. So we used to wait for these people to start singing. But alas!

 

Anywhichways, we soon understood why these guys did so. When we started going to college, we were exposed to many such couples canoodling around. And that too in college since our college – Fergusson – was blessed with plenty of isolated spots which did not remain all that isolated with the ever growing love industry.

 

And the more adventurous ones and of course the innovative ones used to pick up places such as the Lovers’ Lane. This was a lane that connects Law college road to somewhere inside and runs parallel to Prabhat road (for the guys from Pune, if u wanna ever use this!). And yes, there was this amazing technique. You hire a rick. And you pay that guy some money to park the rick very close to the dense growth of trees in someone’s bungalow. And use the rain curtain on the other side. And yippee, you had a private room to yourselves.

 

In Mumbai, though since trees and gardens a rarity, in addition to the spots like my building couples stick to Bandstand, Worli seaface, Nariman Point, Marine Drive and some other places where there is a potent combination of the sea and rocks! It’s very easy to sea that they have a rocking time!!!

Flashback 1997!

Posted: October 16, 2008 in Uncategorized
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During my summer project in my MBA days I lived for about ten days with a bunch of guys from college. I wanted to experience the life of a hostelite. So, while I was still in Pune, I thought this is something that I should try. And experience. (Little did I know that in a years time I would be doing that in Mumbai!!)

Anways, I lived in Aundh – fairly close to the college and had my bike – the Doberman – for company. I lived at a place called Elite Gardens with a bunch of guys who at best can be described as miscellaneous. There were five to six rent paying residents – we never knew which five six among the collective group of twenty guys parking themselves there. I moved in with some of my belongings for an adventure.

Now some of the interesting things that I must tell you guys is that everyone there had a nickname – a funny one with a sound logic to why the person carried that name. So we had “Tarzan”, one who roamed around in multicolored underwear all the time. And we had someone called “Anaconda” cause he was huge and lazy, Then there was someone called “Gundhoo” cause that’s what he was. And of course, “Thakur Dedh Haath” was the guy who had fractured half his hand for half a sem. Then there was “Bhaiyya” who was the gyaani type. And yes there was “Kutta” who seemed to be everyone’s pet.

The usual visitors also had been baptised thus and we had multiple characters floating around. We had one called “Don” for the attitude he had, and there was another called the “Emperor” who was always politically “there”. There was “Sweetie Pandey” who was sweet and nice to all and he hated this name. We also had “Snowy” the darkest guy in college. Then of course there was “Frustoo” for what he felt all the time and “Phantom” who was so thin that he was part of the old jungle folklore. Then there were names that were specially coined for a few people. So we had a “Better Friend”, and girl who was “Miss IQ” with a stress on Miss! We had someone who was called “Harmless” for the way he behaved with the girls. And a girl called “Bhai” cause that’s what she used to behave like. And another was called “Mowgli” for the hairstyle she carried. Whew!

Well, coming back to the hostelite days, I discovered that it wasn’t that easy. You wake up in the morning and there’s no tea waiting for you. The paper is being shared by ten guys, the loo is occupied for a period that seems like eternity. You have to wash your own clothes and by the time you leave home for office, you are half dead. Then you quickly go the nearest udipi joint and have breakfast and tea and count you rapidly dwindling finances. Lunch seems to be like an luxury. And the evenings seem to just make it worse ‘cause you are already missing home.  No wonder, I found myself back home in ten long days enjoying my parents “chatra chaya”!!!

In the monsoons of 1998, a young man came to the city of dreams – Mumbai. All he had was a hope that may just be able to survive and earn a living. His only desire then was to join advertising. The young man was down personally and professionally. Finances were weak, and he was ready to work with any agency that would earn him a living. 
 
Coming from a smaller town to the metropolis of Mumbai itself was a big rude awakening. Too many people, too occupied with their own set of problems. Classic Mumbai. Every morning he joined the countless, nameless and faceless people to take a train to town and then start working his way back to the suburbs with stops at all places where placement agencies were located. 73 placement agencies could not get him a job. Not one. At some places, he even made cold calls and just dropped in his resume at the reception. Every evening, back to a home, physically exhausted, but waiting for the next sunrise for the new set of people to call on. Never tired of the the prospects though.
 
In about two months, he got a random call from a small agency. “We can pay you 5000 if you can start working tomorrow”. He did.
 
Mumbai, has been kind since then. It fuelled my desires, my happiness, my life. I grew up in Pune, but I have grown in Mumbai. Thank you Mumbai.